To whom it may concern. I am expected by God to love you, so would you make my task easier. Endear yourself to us who endure you. Don’t apologize, & no excuses, I know you can do it.
All of us who have to be around you, yes you, inhale your gas, suffer your rude table manners, patiently listen to your idle gossip & snoring, & live thru your dismal frostiness, are expected by God to love you. You were created in God’s image, & are valuable to His plans, so your situation is NOT helpless. Don’t block God from working in & thru your life! Just ‘cause the world’s in trouble doesn’t mean you have to join it. MLK had a dream, & so can you.
Quit living your meaningless existence & wasting time on futile struggles to an empty life. You are needed (& valuable) so help us all with our needs & you’ll demonstrate your value…& receive pleasure. This country is just as much yours & mine as Obama’s, so why shouldn’t you assert yourself in your own country?? You’ll get pleasure from taking control of your life, rather than being out-of-control or under someone else’s control.
Do yourself & others a favor, don’t stop growing, maturing & learning. You want adult freedom, take on adult responsibilities. You want freedom in general, take on the responsibilities that go with freedom. Care for your attitudes as well as your appearance. A smile raises your face value. Men are not attracted to nagging, complaining, critical, sour-puss women. Women are not attracted to condescending smart alecks w/ belittling put-downs, inflated or deflated egos, & sloppy lazy males.
You say you’re not a treat to look at, then develop your inner beauty & manifest the greatness of God inside you. Respond correctly to God & His workmanship (i.e. you, others & nature), by appreciating others & who you are in God’s eyes, then you will become more attractive! When we are Creator-centered, rather than self-centered, we become more lovable to God & everyone. That name brand item doesn’t really make you cool, advertisers will say anything to get you to buy their product. And do the Joneses next door really appreciate you keeping the neighborhood competition going? So don’t let others define your feelings & decide whether you are happy or not. The 3-stage maturing process is when we go from defining right & wrong by punishment, to peer pressure, to principles. (Perhaps 10% reach the final level of principles, of course Godly principles are the best.)
Important things in life often get taken for granted, so you may have been taken for granted, even treated like junk—no big deal, just realize your value, esp. how your Creator values you. Likewise, don’t take Him for granted. So focus on God; & love Him & His plans for you. His alarm clock has already gone off, and you’ve worn out the snooze button.
The Word will tell you the same thing:
“I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” (1)
“For you are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit…” (2)
“…Christ is all, and in all.” (3)
“But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.” (4)
“Become complete. Be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace;…”(5)
“That you walk worthy of God, who hath called you unto His…glory.” (6)
(1)PHIL 4:13 (2)1 COR 6:20 (3)COL 3:11 (4)MT 23:11 (5)2 COR 13:11 (6)1 TH 2:12